It is as if Qiyamah has arrived
Giving some parting advice to her departing daughter,
the mother said
Greet your mother-in-law with salaam when you arrive
Show respect to your father-in-law so that non may
say
This girl is without respect
Always honor your husband
And your life will be one of distinction and merit
Be happy and friendly to everyone in your house
You will then be their illuminating lantern
Never speak in high and harsh tones
And live with simplicity and good character
Take care not to walk around bare-headed
Keep your hair always covered and concealed
You are most fortunate to have your marriage made
Remember that you should now remain chaste forever
Sleep the earliest and be the first to wake up
Keeping your attention fixed on your heart
I understand well your uncertainties and fears
These are part of heat of your spark of love
When the sharp rays of sun extend from you
Remember to show the glow and serenity of the moon
as well
Do not hesitate to do the housework
Because this is the practice in the world throughout
When you apply yourself to the housework
You will gain respect and honor from all at home
Do the work of everyone young and old
And, our daughter, you will make a name for yourself
Never backchat with your husband
So that you may never be disgraced in the Hereafter
I have rendered my parting advice
I have taught you everything you need to know
I would sacrifice gold, silver, anything for you
Now marriage has come, waiting for you
May Allah Jalla Jalaalah bless this hour
Now that our parting has come beautifully.
Translated from an Urdu poem, taken from Tuhfat-e-Dulhan (Gift to Bride), Muhammad Haneef Abdul Majid
P.s: Mahukan yang kekal, mintalah pada Yang Maha Kekal. Impikan yang baik, jadilah yang terbaik.
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Tu gambar kawen Azalinor ngan Kak Bella ek?
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